Blaming people for your own failure & faults is perhaps the most stupid thing to do. Blaming someone for your failures won’t change the outcome but it weakens you. We all have some common reasons that we blame for our mistakes, everyone got few of them.
• Common reasons that we blame
- Blaming the society
- Blaming their family
- Blaming the system
- Even Blaming the country
We can spend our lives blaming others for what happened to us and it won’t change anything or we can do something about it and take ownership or it. That’s the sign of maturity when you don’t win and yet you don’t complain or blame the people around you.
I used to blame my negative relatives for my failures because they’d always put me down and count on me. But the only one that i wasn’t blaming was Myself and i had to rethink about this because i wasn’t blaming myself for my shortcomings.
It’s not what happens to you but it’s what you decide to do about it. Accept where you are and accept the responsibility of where you want to take yourself. Some people spend their life blaming and complaining about everything and they tell everyone how life has done them wrong, they’re so negative about life that all they do is just talk about how negative things are but they don’t do anything about it.
Disappointment is not something that is reserved for the poor only because everyone gets their share but it’s what you do about it that makes the change.
Two men wakes up one morning, one of them looks outside the window and there’s s rainstorm outside and he says ” Wow what a storm, well with a weather like this i can’t go out and make sales ” He stays home.
Same morning the other guy looks out the window and sees the same rainstorm and he says “wow what a storm ” but he says ” you know with a weather like this, what a great day to go out and make sales and everyone is probably at home especially the salesmen..”
See that’s the difference in your life it’s not what happens but it’s what you do about it.