5 Common Fears That Holds You Back

“Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned here.”
  —Marianne Williamson


• The Fear Of Imperfection

There’s no such thing as perfect, perfection doesn’t exist. Atelophobia is Fear of Imperfection / Fear of not Being Good Enough. A mental illness a condition in which a person’s normal thinking, behaviors and responses to surroundings or certain circumstances are impaired. Among the “anxiety disorders” is Atelophobia. People suffering from this Psychological disorder are often depressed. If you run around finding perfection in your work it won’t help you instead it’ll lead you to a state of mind where the Fear of imperfection takes over and it just paralyses you from taking any action and you end up doing nothing. Do what you can, where you are, with what you have.

• The Fear Of Failure

Fear is an allusion that we’ve created in our mind it is a state of mind that can be changed. Fear of being a failure is what keep most people from living their dreams, they won’t just step out there. I’ve already published an article about this one. You can read it here > Fear Of Failure

• The Fear Of Being Rejected

The fear of rejection is one of deepest human fears. we fear being seen in a critical way. It’s hard to stay positive when disappointed about not achieving something you desire, we fear being alone, we fear being rejected it’s in human nature But People who are taking good care of themselves are less dependent on the approval of others. Your dreams were given to you, you don’t anybody’s approval to live your dream. Rejection is part of life, rejection can happen anywhere anytime but don’t let it hold you back from trying.

The Fear of Success

We get scared by our own greatness. Deep inside, we don’t see ourselves as enough, and worthy of love and success. Sometimes we dream larger than ourselves and it’s scary growing, it’s scary when dreams look too good to be true. Psychology define ” The fear of success phobia is very much like the fear of failure: both prevent the sufferer from dreaming and achieving his goals. … Often, the individual might be afraid of success owing to the fear of inability to handle fame or wealth it brings ”

The Fear Of What People Might Say

Why would you spend your precious time overthinking about others and what they have to say about your dreams? Stop creating worse scenarios about your future, they are nothing but the illusionary product of our mind. “The best use of imagination is creativity. The worst use of imagination is worry. “ ~Deepak Chopra
Imagine what your life will be like if you decided not care what people thought of you.

And now, I would like to hear from you. What scares you the most and How do you manage your own fears?


2 thoughts on “5 Common Fears That Holds You Back

  1. Well to be honest i lack boldness i cannot express myself in front of others except for the few selected ones that i hold dear to me .. Its not like that i dont know how to i even have idea like how should i be doing it but .. To act and to express is wht i lack …

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