Take the wheel of your life and drive the way you wanna drive! Most of us live life without taking the charge, most of us live life without taking control of it. For example
If you want to lose weight, it makes sense to remove your favorite high-calorie foods from the shelves, and to tell the waiter at restaurants not to bring the bread. Similarly now If you want to get challenging work done, then you have to take the control of your life and stop all the negative energy coming towards you, in other words you gotta learn how to say No! at certain times and tell everyone how important it is for you to live the way you want to live. In life you’re either a passenger or a pilot, which one are you ?
Here’s how you can take control of your life:
• Stop Procrastinating & putting it off
we’re deeply wired to avoid pain, most people that have some dreams or some ideas that they want to put into actions never actually gets a chance to do it because they start thinking about how would people react? they’re worried about how’d people see their dream? that leads to delaying—- what people think of you and your dreams is non of your business, that’s their business let them worry about it and you worry about creating your own life.
• Don’t let people silence your inner voice
A Quote from Lady Gaga “Don’t allow people to dim your shine because they’re blinded. Tell them to put on some sunglasses, cuz we were born this way Bit*h ”
People are entitled to think whatever they want, just as you are entitled to think what you want, this is your life you got to have your own way of carrying things, stop listening to the Naysayer because their opinion doesn’t mean anything. Live your time don’t waste time blaming and complaining about how life has done you wrong.
• Leave your comfort zone
You’ve seen inspirational quotes that encourage you to get out and do something strange—something you wouldn’t normally do—but getting out of your routine just takes so much work because your body and brain is use to be at rest, it won’t let you do anything creative until you force yourself. It’s important for you to know that nothing comes easy in this life, this hard work & pain that you’re going through shall not last forever but if you quit however it’ll last forever.
Jack Canfield says you only have control over 3 things in life
#1 The thoughts you think
#2 The images you visualize
#3 And the actions you take